You can’t accept your child until you accept yourself.
me
These are my two best friends, well... cat friends that is.
Mr Peer-Poot thinks miss peer-poo is a good sort, but miss pee-poo says she's not yet sure about Mr Peer-Poot.
I hope you liked all my drawings (and Harry's lines). It's fun drawing little people, and I like fish a lot too. We used to have a lovely fish tank full of pretty little shells and Big James bred shell dwelling Lake Tanganyikan cichlids - I can't even say those two words. Big James wrote them for me and I copied them.
I hoped you liked all we said on these pages of our web site. And if you didn't like it, then that's good too. It's good if you feel bad, so Big James and Maddy say, because then it means you can use those bad feelings to go back into your childhood repression to see what happened to you when you were little, to see why such things make you angry. That is, if you want to find the truth of yourself.
And who am I, Big James and Maddy?
We're no-ones, just a child and two grown-ups who were once children.
We live in Melbourne Australia and go to the library in St.Kilda a lot; and Maddy and Big James are trying to heal all their childhood repression, which has led them to understand the plight of us children: through feeling how unloved they felt (and still feel) as children by their mum and dad. And Big James and me want to help other people understand a little more about what the child might be feeling. Maddy isn't interested in telling anyone about it because she just wants to heal herself and doesn't think any one cares anyway. Children have been used and abused for so long that it's all just accepted as what happens, as what you do when you're a parent, so nothing is going to change. But Big James and me hope someone might be interested in understanding what it feels like to be a child.
And now I think it's time for a rest, it's harrowing what a little child has to go through.
I'm going now, miss per-poo wants me to feed her some tuna.
Good-bye!
little james.
Having pets is very selfish - it’s not right to make anything dependent on you.
Including your child.
Including your child.
You say you love animals, and yet look at all the horrible unloving things you do to them.
You say you love your children, yet look at all the horrible unloving things you do to them.
Those who have eyes of truth will see.
Those who don’t will continue on in their blind ignorance believing their life is good and making them happy, when it’s not.
You say you love your children, yet look at all the horrible unloving things you do to them.
Those who have eyes of truth will see.
Those who don’t will continue on in their blind ignorance believing their life is good and making them happy, when it’s not.
Nature is constantly showing us the truth - nature is always true.
We only need look to nature to see the truth of our own true nature.
How we treat nature is how we treat ourselves.
We delude ourselves believing we love nature, just as we delude ourselves that we love ourselves, all the while denying so many of our feelings - those parts of ourselves that reflect and express our true nature.
When we have healed ourselves, so too will be stop interfering with nature.
When we stop interfering with nature, we will be living true.
And so too will we stop interfering with our children.
And miss pee-poo and all her friends won't have to fear us anymore.
We only need look to nature to see the truth of our own true nature.
How we treat nature is how we treat ourselves.
We delude ourselves believing we love nature, just as we delude ourselves that we love ourselves, all the while denying so many of our feelings - those parts of ourselves that reflect and express our true nature.
When we have healed ourselves, so too will be stop interfering with nature.
When we stop interfering with nature, we will be living true.
And so too will we stop interfering with our children.
And miss pee-poo and all her friends won't have to fear us anymore.
Who’s side are you on, the adult or the child?
And if it’s the adult, then you’re not on your own side.
And if it’s the adult, then you’re not on your own side.