control
To control your child in anyway is only going to cause it problems.
parental control
Who caused your child to get cancer? Who caused it to be deficient in will, the true reason why it has cancer? Who stopped it expressing its feelings so its will has remained suppressed? Who didn’t love it truly, making it feel rejected, unloved and unwanted? Who says they love their child when their child is dying of something that is unloving? Who says they have done everything for their child when their child is dying unable to do anything for itself? Who says they wanted their child when their child is being rejected from the world, life, itself? Who says their family is loving when the society their child has grown up in has made it sick? Who never blames themselves for their child’s problems, afflictions and illnesses? Who is always right and never wrong and yet their very own child is showing a very different truth? Who remains blind to the truth and needs their dying child to show it to them? Who needs to kill their own child through lies and deceit blaming every other cause than themselves? Who won’t take responsibility for killing their own child? Who...? We all have to face the truth:
We are all controllers, We are all evil, We all live in a negative self-denying way, We all deny and keep repressed our early childhood trauma, We don’t feel fully loved, We’re not truly happy, All we create is wrong, all we do and say is wrong, we’re all bad. We’re all living against nature and our true selves. And we’ve all been made to believe on some level that how we live is right and good. And we pretend we love one another when all we do is hate each other. We all have to accept that all the bad things, the worst things about ourselves that we don’t want to know about, are what we really are. And we can only heal and change ourselves by finally stopping being false and untrue; and owning up to the horrible people we are. We grow up believing we need to control, but we’re don’t need to. And that’s our difficulty: how can we live without controlling anyone - ourselves, other people, our children and nature. The primitive people did to a far lesser extent than we do, so how can we do it in our progressive society.
We can do all these things with our pets, babies and children that we can’t do in normal life with each other. Such as: control them, pick them up and cuddle them, love them, yell at them, ignore them, do anything we want with them. They are ours, they are there for us, we have all rights over them. They have no say. Which is all very well so long as you're not one of them.
We can only take the child and teach it how to be a ‘better’ child. We don’t take the parents and show them why they are so fucked and how they’ve damaged and traumatised their child.
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We were controlled, so we’re controllers, but all to our own detriment.
We believe it’s good to be an effiiciant controller, but it’s not good as it’s going against nature.
Nature doesn’t control, it accepts. We control and refuse to accept. If you’re made to feel unwanted, an outcast and a horrid thing, you’re not going to be loving to yourself and other people.
How can you when all you’ve experienced is hate, cruelty and rejection. We can spiritually progress without having to progressively increase our control over ourselves, everyone and everything else.
It’s not that your children are supposed to be there for you, you are supposed to be there for them. They are supposed to come first - NOT YOU!
In our negative and feeling-denying state, no matter what we might think and feel we can only put ourselves first and not our children, thereby fucking them up just as we were fucked up.
Even the least controlling person; the softest, kindest most gentle person; one who'd never hurt a flea, is still a controller.
Unfortunately it can't be any other way whilst we're evil. |
We all have to accept it.
We might not like it, but there’s nothing we can do about it.
Except heal it.
We might not like it, but there’s nothing we can do about it.
Except heal it.